I immediately know what most of you are thinking and where you think I am going with this, but you don't. I know there are some men who are jealous in their relationships but I am pretty sure there is enough content around the web for that. What I am getting at are jealous men in general; yup, just the regular average dude walking around jealous of other men, women or anybody who appears to be in a position better than them. I think most people think women and some children are the only beings who catch the jealousy fever but this is not so. Men also get the jealousy fever too, and when they do it's horrific.
When men get jealous some of them gossip about you worse than a female.They spread rumors about you to anyone who will listen. Some jealous men will find women who envy you too and try to pit those jealous women against you too. They are usually the bitter type of person and often times are so full of negative energy that they funnel their jealousy into wishing you ill. Some of jealous men will frown at the mere sight of you and some of them will try to ignore you or even refuse to acknowledge the fact that you are beautiful, kind, generous or anything great that makes you, you. Some of them get jealous of you after you won't give them the time of day so they go around in an attempt to slander your name. A few of them try to get competitive and often times the competition isn't even about the competition it's aboout you. A few people will automatically assume that this article is referring to homosexual men, but it's not. Most of them are cool and when they hate they act like the typical female. To be honest I thinkg a gay jealous guy is better than a straight jealous guy because the big difference is the homosexual will usually say out right "Girl I envy you." Where as the straight jealous man is usually in denial of his jealousy.
When you encounter these kids of men, if you can ladies just keep your distance. There is nothing you can do to help the situation. So when you realize that there is a man jealous of you make sure you mark him down as a hater and keep a close eye on him whenever he is around because some of them lash out and cause actual physical harm.
The best thing you can do is stay away from a jealous man when you have identified him as such.
Yea tell me about it. I had a male co-worker jealous of me, it was a nightmare! I eventually resigned. I didnt know what to do
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