I think a man who is a mama's boy as an adult is the worst kind of man to attempt a relationship with. They are going to half-ass the relationship and you will be continually over shadowed by his mothers needs even if they are not important.
These kinds of men are still boys in my eyes and I have little to no respect for them and their mothers. I say that as a mother, with my own son. I am raising him to be a man and not my man but a man for a woman of his choice. I give him the tools he needs to make good judgement calls about people, even now. I guide him and his choices and when he dates I will guide him but will not police him or his relationships. In other words I will let him be a man.
I will not be opinionative about the women he choices because I'll never know who is going to be the one he'll eventually marry.
I think it's sickening when I see grown men cater to their mothers on an exaggerated level. I think its horrific when an adult male or female can't live their own life out of fear of what mommy or daddy might say or do. At what point do you grow up?
There's one thing to honor and respect your parent but is there not a point in adulthood where you are to stand on your own feet and be independant?
It's terrible when these mothers delve into the relationships of their son who is over thirty at times. They damage his relationship and he does NOTHING but agree with her even when she is wrong. Their mothers often are verbally abusive towards the woman of his choice and even worse; they are rude and disrespectful to the woman he is with. Unfortunately, that ill mannored mother is never corrected or put in her place. When his lady says something in her own defense she is wrong and now he is angry with her.... Uhhh, shouldn't you be mad at mommy dearest?!
I have learned this one lesson from dealing with this kind of man; RUN FOR THE HILLS WHEN YOU REALIZE HE IS A MAMA'S BOY!
Unless you don't mind being in a relationship with 3 people!
These kinds of men are still boys in my eyes and I have little to no respect for them and their mothers. I say that as a mother, with my own son. I am raising him to be a man and not my man but a man for a woman of his choice. I give him the tools he needs to make good judgement calls about people, even now. I guide him and his choices and when he dates I will guide him but will not police him or his relationships. In other words I will let him be a man.
I will not be opinionative about the women he choices because I'll never know who is going to be the one he'll eventually marry.
I think it's sickening when I see grown men cater to their mothers on an exaggerated level. I think its horrific when an adult male or female can't live their own life out of fear of what mommy or daddy might say or do. At what point do you grow up?
There's one thing to honor and respect your parent but is there not a point in adulthood where you are to stand on your own feet and be independant?
It's terrible when these mothers delve into the relationships of their son who is over thirty at times. They damage his relationship and he does NOTHING but agree with her even when she is wrong. Their mothers often are verbally abusive towards the woman of his choice and even worse; they are rude and disrespectful to the woman he is with. Unfortunately, that ill mannored mother is never corrected or put in her place. When his lady says something in her own defense she is wrong and now he is angry with her.... Uhhh, shouldn't you be mad at mommy dearest?!
I have learned this one lesson from dealing with this kind of man; RUN FOR THE HILLS WHEN YOU REALIZE HE IS A MAMA'S BOY!
Unless you don't mind being in a relationship with 3 people!
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